Here is the Shabbat Pak experience from a non-Jewish family:
giuliana's first shabbat dinner
For the meal we chose a wonderful Chicken in White Wine recipe from The New Jewish Table (written by Daddy's friends and owners of the Equinox Restaurant in Washington, DC). Daddy got home later than expected, so its was a bit of a rush to prepare the meal and set the table before sundown, but we managed.
Like her sister before her, Giuliana helped out preparing the ingredients (a lot less than for Adriana's Osso Buco meal). She did well and was able to get back to tickle-time with her sister while dinner finished cooking.
We followed the Shabbat blessings in the folder point by point; blessing the girls, the wine and the bread. The blessings came in a combination of Hebrew and English, and we recited them as best we could, with Adriana and Giuliani repeating after Daddy and participating in every step.
At the end, it was Giuliana's turn to pick her favorite part of Shabbat dinner, and she said "the wine". She loved the story and the song, but raising the kiddush cup following the blessing and drinking the "wine" was #1.